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| Dad & Kaitlyn August 2008 |
I think Kaitlyn's road has been harder on Casey with all of us being so far away than it has on me. He is a family man bereft of family who has been left to the worry of wondering what is happening to his "Sweetie-Peetie" (Kaitlyn) accompanied by the frustration of not being here to be with her during such a trying and stressful time. He's been missing Eden and Ezra a lot as well and often asks me concerning how they're doing adjusting to being here, etc. People here sometimes ask me how long Casey has been gone. He isn't gone...we are the ones who are gone.
Early on in this journey we didn't know what to do with the house we have on Saipan or if would remain residents there or move or what. Casey felt like we should hold on to the house at least for a while, so we have done that. He works hard not only to provide the money to keep us here and maintain a house there, but to also keep my focus on Kaitlyn and Eden and Ezra and not on "Yikes! How are we going to do this?!"
He gets a lot of support from the prayers of friends and family on Saipan as well as here in the States and other places (I'm thinking of you Lee!). He also gets great strength and support from our family away from family on Guam--the Shoemakes--who also happen to be our business partners. Instead of the "all you can do is pray" attitude, we are more the "the most important thing you can do is pray!" kind of people, so faith and the support of everyone's prayers means everything to him. To us.

Thanks for the update. I know what it's like to be so far away from a loved one in the hospital and not be able to do anything but pray and carry on. It's hard! How's Kaitlyn's body taking the chemo this time around?
ReplyDeleteSo far so good Karen. She'll have her last chemo on Saturday morning.
DeleteSorry...last chemo is Sunday morning.
DeleteMaryLou,
ReplyDeleteThis is a powerful update. We were with Casey a while back and it was evident how much he misses you and the rest of the family. Your statement about you being the one who is gone and not him really brought tears to my eyes. That sums up the Saipan situation so well for so many of us.
We continue to remember your family in our prayers.
Helen Ann
P.S. We saw Casey at a party and he was well fed that day.